Perspectives on Failure

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Over the last few weeks, I have been striving to be more mindful in my coaching--to be really present in the moment.  It is easy for me to fall into a consulting or mentoring role, and I want to further practice the coaching skills that I have been learning.  I teeter between conscious incompetence and conscious competence.  Failure is a part of learning, and like most humans, I struggle with it.  Apparently I am not the only one thinking and writing about failure; below are some articles from others on the subject:

So where does that leave me?  I considered treating my work like a science lab, full of experimentation, but that perspective didn't feel right.  It makes me over-analytical and quite critical on myself (I do not need any more of that!).  I was wishing for some kind of renewal, like morning dew on the ground--the feeling wasn't strong enough for me to sustain it to stay in the moment.  Thankfully I did find a perspective that helps me practice mindfulness, and I've been feeling better in my work.

How do you handle failure when you're learning?

Allison Pollard

Allison Pollard is a coach, consultant, and trainer who brings the power of relationship systems intelligence to go beyond tasks, roles, and frameworks to create energy for change. She engages with people and teams in a down-to-earth way to build trust and listen for signals to help them learn more and improve. Allison focuses on creating alignment and connection for people to solve business problems together. Her experience includes working with teams and leaders in energy, retail, financial, real estate, and transportation industries to help improve their project/product delivery and culture. Allison currently volunteers as program director for Women in Agile’s mentorship program. Her agile community focus is championing new voices and amplifying women as mentors and sponsors for the next generation of leaders. Allison earned her bachelor’s degrees in computer science, mathematics, and English from Southern Methodist University in Dallas, TX. She is a Certified Professional Co-Active Coach (CPCC), a foodie, and proud glasses wearer. Allison is a prolific speaker at professional groups and international conferences, including Scrum Gatherings and the Agile Alliance Agile20xx conferences. Allison is co-owner of Helping Improve LLC.

http://www.allisonpollard.com
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